Unique Memorial Art Gallery Celebrating Life
November 1, 2009
Tucked away on a quiet American hillside is one of the most stunning and unique art exhibits in the world. This amazing exhibition isn’t in a museum or a gallery – it’s in a cemetery. Hope Cemetery is located in Barre, Vermont, home to one of the world’s largest granite quarries. Early in the 20th century the abundance of quality granite attracted many gifted European stone cutters and sculptors to Barre, where the craft still thrives today.
Hope Cemetery, created by renowned landscape artist Edward Adams, opened in 1895. Its location in Barre provided local stone artisans with a gallery for their work. When it first opened it was 53 acres and has since expanded to 65. The outdoor exhibit contains an amazing 10,000 monuments, many of which are distinctly unique and intricately carved. All are created from Barre Grey granite. One of the cemetery’s most unusual monuments is a pajama-clad couple holding hands in what looks like a bed, their torsos against a single headboard, and their legs in twin tomb beds. The inscription on the monument reads: “Set me as a seal upon thine heart for love is strong as death – Song of Solomon 8:6.” Another loved one is remembered in a raised relief of a soldier smoking; a woman’s face floats in the haze wafting from the cigarette. Other stone sculptures feature items such as a large soccer ball, a race car, lumber trucks, airplanes, a life-sized, stuffed easy chair with Bettini inscribed into it, and a square monument simply inscribe “Hurry.” One riveting monument is cut from a single block of granite and is inscribed “Elia Corti.” It features a life-sized image of a man sitting on a rock ledge in a contemplative pose. The hand-carved sculpture is so detailed and intricate that the figure looks as if it might spring from the rock. The carving was done by the brother of the deceased. Both brothers were stone cutters. In fact, many of the monuments were created by stone cutters for other deceased stone cutters or their families. There are stories that suggest some cutters created their own unique monuments before passing on. “The desire to be remembered is something that differentiates human beings from other animals,” says Dave Reeson, president of Remco Memorials, a close follower of memorial practices in North America. Reeson said more and more people are looking for special ways to keep the memories of their loved ones alive. “It’s one of the last things a family can do for a loved one that has passed on. It allows those who are grieving to say goodbye, while knowing there is a permanent spot where they can return, to visit.” Reeson says monuments such as those at Hope Cemetery allow families to memorialize the personality of the deceased. “It’s not the recording of the date of birth and death that’s important, it’s everything in between. What’s important is what the monument says about the life of that individual.” Hope Cemetery attracts thousands of visitors from around the world. All visitors share in the warm memories that creatively and permanently honor those who have gone before.
The Teardrop Monument Memorial and Teardrop Granite Monument
October 14, 2009
The Teardrop Monument Memorial
This is the “TEAR DROP” constructed and installed by the Russians to honor those who died in 911 and a statement against terrorism presented 9/11/06. This tear drop monument is very impressive. The tear drop is lined up with the Statue of Liberty.
This Tear Drop Monument Memorial is a gift from the people of Russia.”Monument to the struggle against world terrorism, according to artist ZurabCTesereteii”.
This Teardrop Monument is a very impressive memorial and statement against terrorism and makes a very strong statement.
Look at the walkway which is made of stones.
Names of the persons killed on 911 are inscribed on the base, such as base of the Vietnam Memorial wall. It is down in the shipping yards across from “The Statue of Liberty”.
Teardrop Monument
In my experiences, time cures everything, but there are things we cannot and must not forget. It stands more than 100 feet tall, “To the Struggle Against World Terrorism” honors victims of 9/11 and the 1993 World Trade Center bombings and serves a symbol of solidarity in the fight against world terrorism. Created by Russian sculptor Zurab Tsereteli, the memorial was a gift from the Russian people.
The Memorial was dedicated on the fifth anniversary of 9/11, in a ceremony attended by President Bill Clinton, Secretary of the Department of Homeland Security Michael Chertoff, Governor Jon Corzine, Senator Frank Lautenberg, Senator Robert Menendez and family members of World Trade Center victims. Grammy award winner, Leann Rimes, sang the National Anthem.
By day, or nighttime when it is lit, the Memorial is clearly visible from lower Manhattan, the Staten Island Ferry, ships passing through New York Harbor and airplanes approaching Newark Airport.
In October, Harbor View Park officially opened to the public. Harbor View Park was built by the BLRA and funded in part by the Hudson County Open Space Trust Fund and a contribution from Royal Caribbean Cruise Lines. Its centerpiece is the 9/11 memorial “To the Struggle Against World Terrorism.” With $600,000 in Green Acres funding from New Jersey’s Department of Environmental Protection, the BLRA will construct a new bulkhead along Harbor View Park’s eastern boundary, stabilize the shoreline, and extend the park all the way to river’s edge.
Top Choice Monuments, Grave Markers, Headstones and Tombstones are SELECT
February 23, 2009
Top Choice Monuments, Grave Markers, Headstones and Tombstones are SELECT
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Granite Quality on the Internet
January 26, 2009
Granite Quality on the Internet
Granite, NOT the same!
Granite is the most attractive, durable and long lasting surfaces you could have for a family monument - granite is a great reward from nature and the toughest surface for a family monument!
There are a few things that consumers buying a granite monument over the internet should be aware of before they purchase their family granite monuments.
Not all granite is the same quality!
Some granite sold over the internet may carry the same name as those stones seen in granite monument showrooms, the granite dealer may even say it’s the best quality, but if its ultra cheap, I can assure you - it is almost certainly not! Granite monuments vary in quality, with some types varying quite a lot! One of the main problems with granite is with the surface colors and blemishes which could be visible within. Although there may be several other problems that could be present, including; crack or fault lines in the granite, the surface could be over treated with resin or the stone could vary in thickness across its length - or simply, the granite supplied may differ greatly from the color and pattern profile commonly seen with that type of stone! Unfortunately with lower grades of granite, blemishes can be extremely noticeable and spoil the effect of the surface color and pattern. These blemishes found in the cheaper granite can be very ugly and must be cut around and confined to the waste pile…
Montana-Monuments.com has over 80 years experience in finding defaults within the granite body and this is why we offer an Exclusive Everlasting Guarantee which is available on all products. In other words, even our warranty gives you a promise of quality that will stand the test of time … forever. Montana-Monuments.com only buys and sells Superior quality granite and has each piece examined and tested for deep interior body defects which may become apparent in the future. Montana-Monuments.com’s Exclusive Everlasting Guarantee will assure your granite monument will stand the test of time.
Be advised!
A time-tested granite monument dealer will not sell any customer a piece of granite that has interior defects. The cheap suppliers cannot afford to cut out all problem marks and blemishes, or their profit would also be in the waste pile… Cheap granite monuments with customer “unknown” interior defects will make the future look of your family monument transform in an unfavorable way.
Montana-Monuments.com has over 80 years experience in finding defaults within the granite body and this is why we offer an Exclusive Everlasting Guarantee which is available on all products. In other words, even our warranty gives you a promise of quality that will stand the test of time … forever. Montana-Monuments.com has each piece checked and tested for inner blemishes which may become apparent in the future. Montana-Monuments.com Exclusive Everlasting Guarantee will assure your granite monuments will stand the test of time.
Be alert!
Again, it is difficult for the very cheap suppliers to reject such granite as they should, and still make a profit. Yes, there are bargains on the internet, but be aware that granite is far from all the same - if your granite dealer hasn’t a showroom, is ultra cheap, or hasn’t somewhere you can visit if things go wrong, think very carefully before purchasing! Many of the better granite monument dealers are also on the internet; some being established granite dealers, often with showrooms - check them out, they may not be the cheapest, but they may well be your best choice!
Granite Monuments
January 19, 2009
Granite Monuments
Do you remember being six? Getting ready for the new school year? Being worried about getting on the wrong bus? Do you remember a favorite teddy bear? Watching clouds drift by on summer days? Running barefoot through the grass and sledding down the big hill alone for the first time? Does being sixteen ring a bell somewhere in your memory? Do you remember trying out for the football team, the cheer leading squad, the lead in the class play? Being nervous about giving a speech or asking someone to dance? Can you recall the first time you ever fell in love? How you managed to survive the first break-up, and then the second one, and the third? And then swearing you would never fall in love again? And then you did… Do your memories bring comfort or pain or a little of both? What do you remember and what are you going to do with all those memories? I want to remember Grandma’s special cookie recipe and Grandpa’s stories. I want to remember the warmth of being held, and I want to remember the joy of being loved. I will remember the fears, the guilt, the funeral, the gloom, the thunder and the rain, because I want to remember the sun, and the joy and the love. I cannot separate my life into neat little compartments, each designed to hold only selected memories. As I continue to thrive to separate compartments, they become full, select memories seem to fade with time.
These select, boxed-up memories can fade, but not with granite. Granite monuments stand the test of time, FOREVER. Don’t let your tribute (granite monument) diminish, be sure your family knows what is important to you and exactly how you would like to be remembered, then picture this on a granite monument.
Granite Monuments, one of the most durable stones in the World, is an excellent way to create a lasting tribute. Montana-Monuments.com specializes in the production of a comprehensive range of granite monuments (tombstone, grave marker, gravestone, headstone) and memorials as well as correlative accessories in different sizes and style combinations such as upright granite monuments, flat markers, bevel pillows, slants, benches, signs, vases, posts, urns, etc. We can supply any custom design in a wide variety of sizes, styles, colors and finishes.
Montana-Monuments.com is one of the leaders in the industry of granite monuments. As a respected granite monument dealer, we take pride in our exceptional service, large inventory, reliable delivery, customer assistance and total dedication to the granite monument trade. Quality granite, skilled workmanship, advanced machines together with excellent service and fine processing capabilities and plus the never compromising quality attitude, all contributes to our success in the granite monument business.
At Montana-Monuments.com, we hope to cooperate with you to strive for the mutual benefit.
Music, Headstones, Grave Markers and Monuments
December 24, 2008
Healing through Music
Music can have a huge impact on your emotional and physical health, your general outlook, and your ability to experience life. Whether you’re a musical virtuoso, or have a “tin” ear; and whether you love opera or Alice Cooper, involving music in your life can significantly impact your overall health. Music has been integral to life almost since the beginning of time. However, few of us really understand the important role music can play in our health. The healing attributes of music were recognized as early as the times of Plato and Aristotle. But it wasn’t until the 1940’s, that the first ever music therapy degree program was initiated at Michigan State University. “Music therapy takes a holistic approach to health and wellbeing. We help people work towards their own specific goals, using music as the tool,” said Ruth Eliason, Music Therapist with Palliative Care Services.
Cleaning of Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments
December 15, 2008
I often observe Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments neglected and are dirty, soiled by birds and grass, and damaged by ants. It is important that a family preserves a loved one’s Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments. Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments look best when they are sparkling and dirt free.
Ants
A family needs to take care of unwanted ants that often build mounds around graveyards. To avoid discoloration of the Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments; be careful to keep the spray off them. Destroy those pesky ants before they damage the foundation or stain the Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments. Visiting loved ones is not pleasant with the hurt of ant bites. Cemetery maintenance is the responsibility of everyone, especially the family.
Warnings with Cleaning Instructions
The cleaning instructions for Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments have warnings for your annual cleaning. Beware of chemicals; usually the use of chemicals is best left to the pros.
Cleaning Procedures for Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments
- Do not apply cleaning solutions to hot surfaces on Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments on a hot day. Best time for cleaning is a cool, early morning.
- Before cleaning, check the condition of the memorial for stains that may require special attention before cleaning.
- Check the joints of the upright and base, as they should be repaired before starting the cleaning process. Cleaning solutions will seep through the breaks, under the die, creating streaks in the Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments.
Cleaning Process for Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments
- Wet the entire Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments thoroughly. Clean only on a cool, cloudy day.
- If the Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monument are small, clean the entire base first, and then the upright monument. Clean the Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monument in sections, just like waxing a car. Rinse as each section is completed. 15 gallons of water is needed for a 3-foot monument and base.
- Keep the Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments wet with clean water during the cleaning process. Start from the bottom and work up to the top.
- Be sure to clean only one section at a time, rinsing when clean.
- Never let the cleaning solution dry on the Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments.
- Never allow any portion of the monument to dry out during the cleaning process.
- Always work with a mild chemical, (I believe hot soapy water is best) progressing to a stronger concentration only when needed. After the entire Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments has been cleaned, rinse thoroughly with a hose or, if possible, with a pressure washer. High pressure water will help reduce the hard scrubbing required on many older monuments.
- After cleaning, and rinsing, use a solution of soda and water solution to neutralize and remove any remaining chemical with a baking soda solution. Use this same solution to clean other Headstones, Grave Markers, Gravestones, and Monuments that may have been exposed to your cleaning solution.
Buckets of clean water and a soft brush can do wonders on most newly designed monuments. Care should be taken to use clean water, as water lines in cemeteries may be rusty. If cemetery water is used, it is important to run the water long enough to allow rusted water to be discharged from the lines.
Also, chemicals used in city water may react unfavorably with some cleaning materials. Where possible, use spring or rain water. Soda is an effective powder for negating the acid deposit in cleaning compounds.
Headstones, Monuments and Grave Markers can bring a Different Kind of Holiday
December 4, 2008
Headstones, Grave Markers, and Monuments can bring closure during Holidays
Finally finding a reputable headstone dealer, then picking the design is a very stressful process for a family. The cemetery places the headstone in May. Now what; families feel some closure after the headstone has been set. What about the upcoming holidays? All families, whether religious, ethnic or civic, celebrate holidays a little different when someone is missing. Don’t despair. There’s so much you can do to keep the day special.
Holidays are a time for traditions and gatherings with family and friends. Special memories are linked to these special days. Togetherness with family and friends is almost always part of the celebration. If you’re living with the recent loss of a loved one, it’s no wonder if you find holidays suddenly difficult. One holiday that’s challenging for many bereaved Americans is xmas. Rather than being a joyful time, the xmas season can bring feelings of sadness, loss and emptiness. Traditional activities and symbols become reminders of someone who is precious to us, but no longer here to share the festivities. There are many things you can do to help yourself through the xmas season – good ideas that can apply to other holidays as well.
1. Talk openly with caring friends and family about your grief during the holidays.
They will help you feel understood. Spend time with people who will encourage you to be yourself and accept your feelings – both happy and sad.
2. Discuss honestly with family members what each wants to do on the holiday.
It may be more comfortable to follow traditions or make some changes, perhaps for this year only. Give yourself permission to not do things. Once you have your plans in place, let others know your wishes.
3. Carry on with xmas preparations that you enjoy. Feel free to eliminate or
change the ones you don’t enjoy.
4. Get help with decorations.
Decorating together can preserve the warmth of the season. And you should also let yourself be free to save the decorations for another year if that’s what feels right. You can save xmas cards for another year, too, if that activity is a difficult task.
5. Consider shopping early, and in new ways.
Buying gifts may be upsetting. It may be easier to shop by phone, catalog or on-line. You may want to take an understanding friend with you or perhaps a family member will shop for you.
6. xmas dinner doesn’t have to be the same as always.
You can change the menu, the time of day or the room in which you dine. If you don’t feel like cooking xmas dinner, make alternate plans. You could enjoy a meal prepared by family or friends.
7. Take it easy and get lots of rest.
Holidays are tiring – both physically and psychologically. Lower your expectations and give yourself plenty of time to just relax.
Remember, after the headstone, monument or grave marker has been placed the grieving process isn’t always over. Time can; and will heal. xmas gives a family time to reflect on the past and current blessings they have. Families will often reflect on these times being thankful their loved one has a headstone to reflect on. Headstones will “tell your story in stone” and during the holidays, especially xmas, make sure your loved one has a headstone “granite memory” to reflect.
Happy Holidays and a Happy New Year to all in 2009!!!
A Good Headstone Dealer
November 30, 2008
Qualities in a Good Headstone Dealer
As a family begins to look for a headstone, families should be looking for key essentials to being a good headstone dealer. Below are a few KEY essentials to look for:
Understanding
Vast knowledge. A good dealer will provide information for you to make a purchase. Most customers have little knowledge of headstones and it’s the dealer’s responsibility to inform them on all aspects of headstones.
Sympathy
This is a very difficult process and a good headstone dealer will ensure time is not a factor. In a state of mourning, nobody likes to feel they’re being taken advantage of. As the grieving process is ongoing, please be sure there is no assertiveness when selecting a headstone.
Headstone Quality
Value and Quality. Excellence in granite is what a family should be looking for. High-quality headstones stand the test of time. Have an idea what you can spend. Remember, small companies can provide great high-quality headstones, outstanding personal and customer service.
Convenience
Your headstone dealer should be reached at a reasonable time, while always getting back to your email or phone call in a short period of time. Most headstone orders take two to four months to complete and this is reasonable because your headstone is customized. A good headstone dealer will always be able to provide a status report on your headstone.
Ensuring satisfaction
When you decide to make the purchase, how does the company follow through once the headstone order has been placed and throughout the production and delivery phases. Do they do everything they say they will? After the headstone is delivered, do they follow up asking for your comments? Are all problems corrected in a timely manner? It is very important for a headstone dealer to follow through with promises and to take responsibility for problems made by them; especially in the death care industry. Poor answerability on the headstone dealer’s part can lead to permanently losing the respect of the customer and ruining their trustworthiness. A good headstone dealer will genuinely want the customer to be satisfied with their purchase, even if the company ends up losing money on the sale. Remember; only make a purchase with a headstone dealer you feel comfortable with.
Headstones, Grave Markers, Monuments and Holidays?
November 25, 2008
Handling the Holidays during a difficult time
All of us have our own ways to celebrate the holidays and occasions that we honor as individuals, families and communities. Holidays hold countless memories of family, friends and special times. They are marked by traditions that are eagerly anticipated. Anticipation and planning may start months in advance. No matter how long holidays last they are over too soon. They are the signposts that mark our personal history. “The holidays” are different for each of us. There are days and seasons that mark religious occasions and historical events – the holidays we celebrate in our own communities. But there are also days and times that are special just to us. The weekend when we open or close the cabin, planting the garden, the sporting event everyone gathers to watch, even the first warm day of spring or cool evening in the fall can have a special meaning and create a flood of memories. The anticipation, the traditions and the memories that holidays and special occasions call to mind make these the times when the loss of a loved one can be felt most keenly. There is no simple way to make it easier to deal with the emotions and memories that are stirred by the holidays. We are all different. Remember that the right way to deal with your feelings is the way that works for you. Here are some thoughts that can help you plan the best ways to deal with the holidays.
Plan ahead
As difficult as it may be, think about upcoming holidays and occasions well in advance. Accept that this will probably be a difficult time and try to decide what will help you to get through it. Don’t assume that something will be too great an imposition on family or friends. Remember, the people who care about you want to find ways to help and support you, so don’t feel you’re being selfish if you consider your needs and ask something of them. Don’t be afraid to ask for help with holiday and special occasion preparations. Tasks you could breeze through before may suddenly seem overwhelming. Asking family or friends to share the work can make your life a little easier.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help with holiday and special occasion preparations
Tasks you could breeze through before may suddenly seem overwhelming. Asking family or friends to share the work can make your life a little easier. No matter how long they last, holidays are over too soon. They are the signposts that mark our personal history. You may even find that getting together to decorate, fix a meal, shop or even clean your home become its own holiday tradition.
Don’t feel obligated to do things the way they have always been done
Perhaps you have always hosted a holiday meal or gathering. While doing things the same way may be a source of comfort to you, it is also perfectly all right to suggest a change. Don’t feel this is an imposition on your family and friends or that you are letting them down. This is a chance for them to support you and help you through a difficult time.
Consider creating new traditions to celebrate the memory of your loved one
It could be as simple as buying a new holiday decoration or symbolic item every year. It could mean a visit to your place of worship specifically to honor this individual’s memory. You might choose to visit a place that was significant to both of you every year and spend some quiet time reflecting on his or her life. You might make an annual donation to a charity or organization that was special to your loved one, or volunteer
your time. Coping with holidays and special occasions after losing a loved one may be one of the most difficult challenges any of us will face in our lives. Yet over time, you will find that the pain and sense of loss softens as remembering and celebrating the life of your loved one becomes a positive part of your “new” celebrations.